The subject of love has been so powerfully communicated in music. Think of loves songs you remember. Every genre of music has its songs that tell the story of love in some form or another. How about a couple of songs from the past?
Love Me Tender – Elvis Presley
Love Is a Many Splendored Thing – Andy Williams
From the Book of Ruth, God gives us some practical ways to show love. This short, but, powerful story about Ruth’s love for her mother-in-law, Naomi, illustrates to us not only down-to-earth principles, but it also shows us a clear picture of God’s divine love.
In the story, Naomi lost her husband and two sons, who were the husbands of Orpah and Ruth. All three women had suffered great loss, but Naomi the most.
And she (Naomi) said, “Look, your sister-in-law has gone back to her people and to her gods; return after your sister-in-law.” But Ruth said:
“ Entreat me not to leave you, or to turn back from following after you;
for wherever you go, I will go; and wherever you lodge, I will lodge; your people shall be my people, and your God, my God. Where you die, I will die, and there will I be buried. The LORD do so to me, and more also, if anything but death parts you and me.”
When she saw that she was determined to go with her, she stopped speaking to her.
Let’s look at some practical ways to show love to each other from this passage in Ruth 1:15-18.
1. I show my love by sticking with someone through tough times. Love can best be shown in crisis. The valleys of life separate the fickle from the committed. One of the basic elements of love is “sticking power.” Ruth stuck with Naomi.
A man who has friends must himself be friendly, but there is a friend who sticks closer than a brother. Proverbs 18:24
God himself models tenacious love!
Have you ever bailed on someone who needed you to stick with them? If so, how did it make you feel? Have you stuck with someone in tough times? How did that make you feel?
2. I show love by adjusting to others. Ruth illustrated this so well! She made drastic adjustments in her life so she could follow her mother-in-law and ultimately, Naomi’s God. Adjusting says, in a most powerful way, “I love you!”
What are some practical ways we can adjust our lives to the ones we love? Where is God asking you to adjust your life so you can better show love to someone?
3. I show love by offering encouraging words. Some things must be said! Ruth’s words to Naomi not only demonstrated her willingness to act in the future, but were a source of great encouragement as she spoke them.
Death and life are in the power of the tongue… Proverbs 18:21
How have you been guilty of offering "words of death" to a loved one? What words or encouragement do you plan to share this week?
4. I show love by putting the needs of others above mine. Not only did Ruth say it, she acted on her words, by making Naomi’s needs a priority. As the story progresses we see Ruth being rewarded for this act of selflessness. She found love with a man named Boaz.
What needs of someone else can you put above yours today? What are you waiting on? Do it! You will be blessed by your sacrifice.
This story of love in The Book of Ruth, as we mentioned earlier, gives us a clear picture of God’s divine love.
1. God will stick with us in tough times.
2. God adjusted to us. We sinned; He provided the sinless sacrifice for sin.
3. God’s Word encourages us.
4. God put our needs above His.
God is not a cosmic bully who waits for us to mess up. He is, rather, a loving Father who wants us to know His love and share it with others.